幸福很简单，不要与人攀比就好了。

Nicole's birthday. ♥

i missed her birthday last year, but coming every year, i gonna remember =D

This's what i made for her, my DIY big and small card, reuse the box and decorate to become a gift box, and the cupcakes i draw for her, but not bake by me :)

We went cameron as a birthday trip for celebration with a bunch of friends <3

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♥

距离不是难题，心的距离才是利器；时间不是苦药，爱的时间才是真谛。
若你拥有一份异地恋，不必焦虑，也不要心急，只需相信：
真爱经得起考验，也需要考验。
若你失去一份异地恋，不必难过，也不要伤心，只需明白：
你失去的叫爱情，并不叫真爱。
真正的爱情求之不来，挥之不去。

這拿來安慰自己就差不多吧   ='(

记住：不是所有人都是真心，所以，不要那么轻易的就去相信；
记住：不是所有人值得你付出，所以，不要那么傻的就去给予；
记住：不是伤心就一定要哭泣，所以，不要那么吝啬你的微笑；
记住：不是只有你一个人在努力，所以，不要轻易的就放弃。
记住：一定要幸福。

【人生十大宝典】

⒈不要追求笑到最后，要看谁最后笑。
⒉是你去适应社会，不是社会适应你。
⒊伸手不打笑面人。
⒋只有错买，没有错卖。
⒌你是无价之宝。
⒍尊重不喜欢你的人。
⒎狂妄的人有救，自卑的人没救。
⒏放下就没有烦恼。
⒐生命不要浪费在后悔的地方。
⒑简单的复杂做，复杂的简单做。

一個人旅行

我要一個人去紐約純粹看雪景, 
我要一個人去巴黎喝咖啡寫信,
我要一個人的旅行 一個人透透氣. ♥ ♥ ♥


一個人的旅行,
一個人的行李, 
一個人的旅行, 
一個人的空氣, 
一個人的旅行, 
一個人沒有你.

在台中和台北我所吃過的美食

應該是叫“雞排飯”吧。我到臺灣的第一餐。- 逢甲夜市的三友盯， 台中

臭豆腐 - 逢甲夜市，台中

木瓜牛奶 - 在台中逢甲夜市  （北回木瓜牛奶會比較讚喔,可惜我沒拍到照片 =[  ） 

 

 黃金右腿 -逢甲夜市,台中

魷魚 - 逢甲夜市,台中

雞排 - 在台中逢甲夜市

芋頭冰 -  在台中逢甲夜市

芋圓 - 在台中逢甲夜市

在一中街 , 台中

Spaghetti  - 7-Eleven ,台中

Macaroni  - 7-Eleven ,台中

滷味 - 逢甲夜市，台中

蔥抓餅 - 西門町，臺北

香腸 - 西門町，臺北

豪煎 - 西門町，臺北

魯肉飯 - 西門町，臺北

蝦餃 - 淡水

阿宗麵缐 - 西門町，臺北

臭豆腐 -  士林夜市

Girl: Do you really love me?
Boy: Of course I do. 
Girl: I wanna hear you say it. 
Boy: I don’t have to. 
Girl: Why not ? 
Boy: Because. 
Girl: I just want to hear you say it in words.
Boy: I can’t. 
The girl started to cry softly and said, Then you don't love me. 
The two continued to walk in silence. They reached the girls home. 
Girl: Why ? 
Boy: Do you really want to know ? 
Girl: (hesitantly) Yes. 
He hugged her gently, kissed the tip of her nose and whispered in her ear, 
Because three words are not enough...[ ♥ ♥ ]


  

人需要出走 (作者:蔣勳)

你們一定很認同。「旅行－是讓人保持青春的訣竅。」  
其實我不太講旅行或旅遊，我常常用的一個字是「出走」。  
人在一個環境太久了、太熟悉了，就失去他的敏銳度，也失去了創作力的激發，所以需要出走。


我七O年代在歐洲讀書，那時候我寫關於文藝復興的藝術史，  
老師問我，「你有沒有去過義大利？」我說還沒有。  
他說，「你沒有在米開朗基羅的雕像前，熱淚盈眶，你怎麼敢寫他？」
後來我在義大利跑了一個月。  
身上就是一個背包，兩件襯衫。  
我也曾經睡火車站，那時候坎城的火車站是一片年輕人睡在裡面。  
他們問我，「你怎麼沒帶報紙？要鋪報紙的。」他們就分給我。  
早上五點，警察帶了一大桶的咖啡，噹，噹，噹，敲著桶子，叫醒大家，  
請大家喝完咖啡離開，火車站要營運了。


不要問該準備什麼？先問你愛什麼？


歐洲有種青年出走的文化。 
我在翡冷翠（編按：義大利佛羅倫斯）認識十四歲的蘇格蘭小孩，  
帶個氈呢帽，打掃廁所一個學期存的錢，就到歐洲來旅行。  
花完了，一點也不害怕，就去街上吹蘇格蘭風笛，再繼續下一段的旅行。  
我那時候感觸很深，不同的文化，年輕人可以這麼不一樣。  
他們將來長大以後，擔當的事情也絕對不一樣。  
我們宋朝詩人柳永說，「今宵酒醒何處？」中國文化裡面本來有這個東西。  
可是這個文化老了，失去了走出去的勇敢。  
年輕人的生命力沒有了，生命力消失了。


我希望壯遊，帶動的是年輕人走出去，打出一片天。  
如果今天不能打出一片天，將來一輩子也不會有出息。  
很多人要去歐洲，都會覺得我在歐洲很久，就會來問我：「我要去歐洲，要準備什麼？」  
我就會反問他，「你覺得你要去做什麼？」


當你自己很清楚要做什麼、意志力很強的時候，所有困難可以一層層克服。


我們今天小孩的準備，  
他們的信用卡、語文，絕對比當年拿著商品樣本在歐洲闖的台灣商人好，  
但是他們就是走不出去，因為他們的安全感。  
甚至有人好幾年都在問，但最後就是走不出去。


其實壯遊有一部分，是先走出去再說。
                                                                                                                                  我常常跟朋友說，《西遊記》孫悟空那麼厲害，他一翻筋斗就是十萬八千里，那他去取經不是很容易嗎？為什麼是唐三藏取經？


因為孫悟空沒有動機，而唐三藏有動機，雖然沒有取經的能力。  
但是動機是比能力重要的。  
沒有動機，根本就沒有出發點，連起跑點都沒有。  
只要有動機，都很棒。最怕的是無所愛。


如果年輕人想要走出去，我會問他，「你愛什麼？」如果喜歡搖滾，要去玩重金屬，想要跟樂團，我都覺得很好。  
此外，「壯遊」的「壯」字，不只是炫耀。  
壯這個字，包含了一個深刻的，跟當地文化沒有偏見的對話關係。  


旅遊是很大的反省，是用異文化，去檢查自身文化很多應該反省的東西。  
比較裡面，才瞭解文化的不同，沒有優劣。  
就像寫《裨海紀遊》（編按：清朝康熙年間記錄台灣山川風物之著作）的郁永河，他看到原住民被抓來拖牛車，下雨他們就在淋雨。  
他就問：「為什麼不讓他們在屋簷下躲雨？」翻譯官就告訴他，  
「他們其實跟動物差不多，他們是不怕淋雨的。」郁永河就嘆了一口氣說，「亦人也。」  所有好的旅遊書，都會有這個觀點。




著有《真臘風土記》、出使吳哥城的周達觀是元朝的北方人，  
所以他南下的時候，受不了天氣。 
他不瞭解當地人怎麼每天洗好多次澡。  
一年之後，他變了。  
當初他帶著大國心態，當時元朝那麼偉大，  
但他後來說，真臘（編按：今日的柬埔寨吳哥窟），  
一個小小的東南亞國家，可是禮儀這麼嚴整，「不可輕視也。」  
我覺得，


人不可能沒有主觀，可是慢慢在旅遊裡面，修正自己的偏見跟主觀，才是好的旅遊。 不只向外觀察，而是向內反省。 


即使只是參加旅行團，也可以有不一樣的體驗跟視野。  
現在資訊真的很發達，在出發以前，做一些準備的工作。  
第二個，到現場之後，盡量檢討自己的主觀。




我帶朋友去吳哥窟，我會說，「我現在帶你們去柬埔寨人的家。」  
他們下車都會嚇一跳，真的什麼都沒有。  
我們叫做「家徒四壁」，他們連壁都沒有。






我在台灣，老覺得我還缺什麼。  
到那裡，我第一次想：「我在台北家有什麼。」我以為我比他們富有。  
可是後來我看到他們男男女女從田裡回來，  
脫光光的在河裡、蓮花當中，彼此潑水、唱歌，我覺得他們比我富裕太多了。  
我一生當中都沒有這樣的經驗。  
我覺得這就是個很大的收穫。  
所以我覺得任何一個旅遊都值得，  
因為只要一對比，  
你都會回來檢討自己的生命意義和價值。  
旅遊不只是看，更是找到自己內在，最美的東西。  
外在的風景，其實是你自己的心情。  
所以壯遊絕對不只是向外的觀察，而是向內的反省。


在一個環境久了，不但爆腦漿、爆肝，還會變得「僵化」與「麻木不仁」 




出走當然是一個很棒的選擇，若短期無法成行... 
閱讀、手作、聊天、學習、陪伴、分享、運動、散心、唱歌、畫畫. 
...也是很不錯的方法  


只要能讓你的生活比重產生變化的，自然也會改變你的生活品質，  
避免腦子僵化、心靈麻木了。  
有多久沒抬頭看看天、看看路邊的小花小草、  聽聽在行道樹上吱喳的小鳥??  


就從這個簡單的改變開始吧~    

10 Reasons To Never Give Up

1. As long as you are alive, anything is possible. The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive (and healthy and free) you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed. 
2. Be realistic. The chance of mastering something the first time you do it is almost non-existent. Everything takes time to learn and you will make mistakes. Learn from them. 
3. You are strong. You are stronger than you think. One little setback is not enough to stop you from achieving your goals. Neither are 10 or 100 or 1000 setbacks. 
4. Prove yourself. You don’t want to be known as someone that is weak and gives up. Go out there and prove yourself to the world and to yourself. You CAN and WILL achieve what you set out to do. The only time you fail is when you give up. 
5. Believe in your dreams. Don’t sell yourself short. In life there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible. 
6. Your family and friends. Let the people you love and who mean the world to you be your inspiration to persist and persevere. Maybe you need to try a different angle, study more or practice more but don’t give up! 
7. There are people worse-off. Right now there are many people who are in a worse situation and environment than you are. Are you thinking about giving up running 5 miles a week? Think about the people who are unable to even walk and how much they would give to be able to run 5 miles every day. 
8. You deserve to be happy. Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination! 
9. Inspire others. Be an inspiration to others by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because you never gave up and in turn inspired them not to give up. 
10. You are so close. Often when you feel like you want to give up you are so close to making a huge breakthrough. You are just a heartbeat away from success.

My 20th Birthday ♥

My birthday in this year is so worst, but the people are lovable to me :) My birthday is crashing in between my final exam this year, how sucks right?  i'm so lazy to blog about my birthday actually, but i want to do so :P
I do hate my birthday this year, many bad thing come with me in this few month :(
Breakup, exams, daddy get sick. and things not going smooth always. T_T
Wishing everything can become better soon ♥
*why every year my birthday also don't have boyfriend ?  :'( imisshim so much. (anyway i'm still satisfied that get his wishes from the text and calls ♥ ) gimme sometime to digest you. Distance relationship is really hard to maintain, is about trust, handle temptation and how you maintain it too. 有缘的话以后也会走在一起的吧. wrong timing to encounter the right person.

My first celebration :
In Mcdonald's Kampar. Actually is they keep asking me to go mcd study that night, and all appear infront of me after 12. hehehehe. Actually i knew about that you all will celebrate for me. :P and i just act like don't know. A big big Thankyou to you guys. i L-O-V-E you guys so much seriously. You guys give me a lot of laughter in kampar. ♥

The cake from CakeInn in Kampar :)

Make a very first wish .

The pressie given by them ♥ ♥

I named it as 'Chockie' :D

i hug it when i sleep every night now. ♥

Second celebration:

(without birthday songs) but still consider bah ♥

In Secret Recipe's Kampar. My bro Kahhong already date me before a few weeks for a dinner on my birthday. Thanks a lot ♥ Thanks for your caring all the time. Thanks for being my listener when i needed. Thanks for everything :) The dinner tagged along with his dearest girlf Vemin ♥, Jiajian and Renkeei. Thanks for the dinner, and thanks for coming :D

. . . and seriously, thankyou kahhong and vemin for the earliest birthday present ♥

*my first mp3

Third celebration:

In my hostel. Lol. I never expected this before seriously. At first, Jimmy and LaiYan date me out to yum cha, i out because i want to meet her! and never expect they will lie me. All the thing in my brain is how to face my Bmp notes, this fucking paper. i even thought of bring it down together to go yum cha. lol. and when i go out from my room, ready to go out. They hiding beside the wall, and shocked me and i shout. I don't know what to respond in so sudden. i just thinking what the hell is happening that time -.-

Btw, i really touch that they came here for me ♥ ♥ ♥  Appreciate lots lots. :*

Baskin Robin VS Secret Recipe

This BR cake is inside my wishlist, Thanks to Nicole. ♥♥♥

I like this cake so much, so beautiful; but it's difficult to eat it. 

This is how we eat the cake. Lol

I love her, she always make me laugh, make me cry.

We can laugh for so suddenly and nobody know's what we laughing.hehee ♥ 

Make the second wish. 

First time receive a so big surprise from friends ♥♥

Thankyou woeihann, for coming back all the way long; he lied me and say so sad cannot celebrate birthday with me this year, and actually i can feel so weird of he saying like this, just i never think too much cause exam. ♥

Thankyou ah soo, for lying me that he's in Johor for working. -.- What a big lies on that day, i so stupid believe only. ♥

Thankyou ah swee, for lying me he forget about my birthday and wishing me so late, and say he's in working. Zzz. p/s: Please la don't eat so much edy, your tummy getting bigger already :p ♥

Thankyou andy, for coming with them, with nicole. She love you so much, please la treat her better. Sometimes, i can felt the pain from her. *iknowyouwon'tseethis. ♥

Thankyou jenny, for coming from ipoh and the Biggest card i ever receive. (and the purple top you gave me last week) ♥  You hug me whenever i cried . ILY <3

The big big card from her ; )

Thankyou Laiyan, for lying me to yum cha. and Thanks for your Birthday card with some words baby, i appreciate lots. It's already enough on what you did kay girl. You always be my listener when i needed, make fool with me, stalk good stuff with me, gossip, lok lok and so so much. ILY ♥ ♥

Thankyou jimmy, for lying me with laiyan too. Thanks for the mcd before that night :) Glad to have a friend like you, although you always  bully me. ♥

Thankyou ah bi, for coming too, be the camera man recording what my respond is in the video. so fugly okay -.- Btw, really thanks, my aiya lougong (cause he always call me loupo in public) lol ♥

Thankyou ah jia, for coming with them. din't thought that you were here with them ;) ♥

Thankyou ah jian, for coming with them too. you still owe me a present :P ♥

Lastly, Thankyou to my babe Nicole Yim, she's the host of this surprise party. Thanks for the BR cake, the Flora Gucci perfume, the letters that make me tearsdrop. idk what makes us to be close with each other more, maybe him and our relation getting closer. ♥ I really do appreciate what you did for me in these days, these year. you're so adorable. I'm so proud of i'm the first girlfriend that you treat like a real sister. Thanks for everything you did. you will follow to cry when you see me cry, sorpo ♥ ILY ILY ILY !! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

谢谢你，严诗蔓  ♥ ♥

This piece of cake from someone, Thankyou for the cake, Thankyou for caring. : )

And this person, you know who you are, and thanks for the two piece of SR cake; and the card too :)))

Thankyou my housemate, Edwin for giving me this. lol. I'll help you promote ha your page kay ;)  Click this. Anyone interested can find her on the page, or find me if you want : )

This fossil purse, from my baby Siewyin ♥  She felt sad cause cannot attend the surprise party and she promised me to re'celebrate for me in this few weeks. ILY baby, i knew you since secondary in tuition, although not so close that time, but time and fate make us come closer ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ you're my good listener although you are not enough gila compare with them. you have your style and I like it baby.  ♥